If you have a 15-to-17-year-old for walking around
the House, you can have a chef-in-the-Making in housing. The child is diligent
selection of the raw materials that are classified as basic recipe for their
personality that will serve the entire adult. Sure, she wants to spice it up
with different experiences and expressions of the person, but is the basic ingredients
for the eyes. Some of their "flavors of the week" tantalizing you may
be, others will be attractive. The more neutral you are the more you help your
child can choose for him or herself. The more reactive will find yourself the
more you invite will revolt.
Now, some rebellion at this stage of evolution of
the system. Parents often tell if their child is not getting into trouble a
little at this stage to do their job in adolescence, because whenever these
rebels are break whenever. But you may be responsible for the revolt of the
battles that choose to participate. Rule of thumb when your teen is acting like
an adult you treat him or her as adults, but when he or she rigrisis in a
manner similar to the child that he or she seek such limits and more can be
answered more secure you will feel that your teenagers.
Alarming facts (and sometimes annoying) about this
phase is that you never know what your teen will ask when. One minute You can
be involved in the conversation is very mature with your son or daughter the
next time something is locked up and you can see the re-search old toddler
tantrum lasted before you. "I want
what I want when I want it" is the song that is heard throughout the world
of teenagers. Except now the demand for car keys, to go to a party or to be
able to participate in activities that encourage you outside your comfort zone.
Don't be afraid to say no to your teen. Again,
don't be afraid to say no! And not get caught up in keen. First and foremost
you your mother child, you're not child friend. They are looking for you are
not strong enough to stand up to them and whose main instigators will be
inconsistent attitude not afraid. Get ready for the world of adults, and you're
the first litmus test. If they can be bull must be the same with every adult
can through their aggression in adulthood that they encounter. Teens don't want
to feel stronger than their parents. Do you want to know even care enough to
fight for what is the best, even if you do not agree with you go. Your position
gives them a strong platform from where you want to start with. This is not
about right or wrong is a base from which they can launch and define ourselves.
So prepare for war, take a breath, and when an
adult, a cappuccino or a hot bowl of soup on the net out of the stands to share
dinner before Darling in Adolescent as this rare moments of pleasure in the
autumn. Participate in this new job creation. You are the first audience. You
are crucial for success in this phase. Note that this is a very good and you
remember and move on!
Article originally printed in November 2007 number
ascending service network: "your guide to raising children happy and
healthy and emotionally stable.
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